Why are SECRETARIES mostly play as the FAMILY BREAKER?

schatzi · 21-10-2006, 06:13 AM

Secretaries play a great role in the office. They are one of the people who make one´s office progressive. But one thing very ironic is that.. mostly secretaries have a relationship with their boss and this lead to have a family conflict. Na good if the boss is still single.. then it´s okey but if the boss has it´s own family.. that´s a great problem.

Who will be blamed? the secretary or the boss???

I you guys have your own opinion, then post it here.

bangfor · 30-10-2006, 10:45 PM

You can't blame them because most of the time they are young and attractive and they can easily be wooed into a relationship by their more experienced bosses who could have wives and children at home. The question is, who is at fault here? The bosses are humans and all they are doing is have some fun with women that are much younger than their wives. Is it possible for the wives to understand that or they are entitled to go up in arms and ask for divorce when so many things are at stake?

schatzi · 31-10-2006, 04:22 PM

We all made mistakes because we are only humans. But it´s up to us how to deal with our humanity. It is not only the fault of the boss but it´s also the fault of the secretary. The only thing is they should both know the boundary of their attraction.

bangfor · 02-11-2006, 11:23 PM

Still you're on them, the secretaries, but it would mean the wives are entitled to go up in arms if both pass the boundary. Well, if that's not the case they wouldn't feel safe to send their husbands to work and husbands should be loyal to their wives and family.

Offices Admin · 05-11-2006, 11:24 PM

I figure any place where people come together and have to spend a lot of time in each other's spaces - and get along - are going to have some degree of attraction. It's possibly mandatory - but doesn't mean to say it can't be platonic only.

schatzi · 07-11-2006, 06:29 PM

The only thing is Trust. In the family, one must trust each other so that there would be no chaos.

Stephanie2377 · 11-11-2006, 08:01 PM

If something happens between a boss and a secretary, then both are at fault. They are both adults, and are both responsible for their actions.

If one (or both) are married, then they should NOT engage in any type of behavior that would be considered cheating. That would be breaking the marriage vow, and that is very wrong.

If this happens, then I believe the spouses have every right to decide to leave. Infidelity is infidelity, no matter where it occurs.

hokeshel · 13-11-2006, 01:55 AM

Many a marriage has been ruined due to office romance. I doubt that it is any more likely between a secretary and their boss than any other two office workers. I think that it has more to do with the amount of time spent together, the morlas of those involved and the state of the marriage.

palefrost · 15-11-2006, 01:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Offices Admin

I figure any place where people come together and have to spend a lot of time in each other's spaces - and get along - are going to have some degree of attraction. It's possibly mandatory - but doesn't mean to say it can't be platonic only.

I have to agree. A man and woman together working as a team always takes on a strange role. Ive seen it happen a number of times and have worked for men that i learn to admire and heck you do think about sex occasionally.

hokeshel · 15-11-2006, 07:52 PM

I have worked for men and have not been attracted to them but, we have gotten along well. I have never been tempted to sleep with my boss.

21-10-2006, 06:13 AM	#1 (permalink)
schatzi Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 26	Why are SECRETARIES mostly play as the FAMILY BREAKER? Secretaries play a great role in the office. They are one of the people who make one´s office progressive. But one thing very ironic is that.. mostly secretaries have a relationship with their boss and this lead to have a family conflict. Na good if the boss is still single.. then it´s okey but if the boss has it´s own family.. that´s a great problem. Who will be blamed? the secretary or the boss??? I you guys have your own opinion, then post it here.

30-10-2006, 10:45 PM	#2 (permalink)
bangfor Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 38	Whose fault is it? You can't blame them because most of the time they are young and attractive and they can easily be wooed into a relationship by their more experienced bosses who could have wives and children at home. The question is, who is at fault here? The bosses are humans and all they are doing is have some fun with women that are much younger than their wives. Is it possible for the wives to understand that or they are entitled to go up in arms and ask for divorce when so many things are at stake?

02-11-2006, 11:23 PM	#4 (permalink)
bangfor Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 38	I see your point Still you're on them, the secretaries, but it would mean the wives are entitled to go up in arms if both pass the boundary. Well, if that's not the case they wouldn't feel safe to send their husbands to work and husbands should be loyal to their wives and family.

31-10-2006, 04:22 PM	#3 (permalink)
schatzi Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 26	We all made mistakes because we are only humans. But it´s up to us how to deal with our humanity. It is not only the fault of the boss but it´s also the fault of the secretary. The only thing is they should both know the boundary of their attraction.

05-11-2006, 11:24 PM	#5 (permalink)
Offices Admin Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 28	I figure any place where people come together and have to spend a lot of time in each other's spaces - and get along - are going to have some degree of attraction. It's possibly mandatory - but doesn't mean to say it can't be platonic only.

07-11-2006, 06:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
schatzi Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 26	The only thing is Trust. In the family, one must trust each other so that there would be no chaos.

11-11-2006, 08:01 PM	#7 (permalink)
Stephanie2377 Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 52	If something happens between a boss and a secretary, then both are at fault. They are both adults, and are both responsible for their actions. If one (or both) are married, then they should NOT engage in any type of behavior that would be considered cheating. That would be breaking the marriage vow, and that is very wrong. If this happens, then I believe the spouses have every right to decide to leave. Infidelity is infidelity, no matter where it occurs.

13-11-2006, 01:55 AM	#8 (permalink)
hokeshel Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 9	Many a marriage has been ruined due to office romance. I doubt that it is any more likely between a secretary and their boss than any other two office workers. I think that it has more to do with the amount of time spent together, the morlas of those involved and the state of the marriage.

15-11-2006, 07:52 PM	#10 (permalink)
hokeshel Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 9	I have worked for men and have not been attracted to them but, we have gotten along well. I have never been tempted to sleep with my boss.